So, for those of you who know my daughter, you know the first time on the bus was going to probably be a BIG DEAL. My oldest daughter probably had the hardest time with our divorce last year, but it was a slow developed reaction. Granted, some of the behaviors that came from this life altering change in her life were there before. For example, her fear of places closing and her getting locked in. This one was HUGE!!! For the entire summer there were very few places we could go, and if we did by some odd miracle get her somewhere, we would have to leave early because she melted down. We couldn't even go to a park, especially if it had gates, because she was sure it would lock and we wouldn't be able to get out.
The bus coming down the hill! |
Needless to say, despite all of the heart wrenching transitions we have had to make with her, this decision she took in stride and with a zeal that I have never before seen in her. After telling her and seeing her experience Meet your Teacher and the first days of school, I can honestly say that I will never again doubt her ability to rise to the occasion. I also learned a lot about my behavior and how it affects her and will work my hardest to never again let her see my own fear and anxieties.
This is Lainey doing her "fishing" dance to "catch" the bus!!! |
This morning the first words out of my daughters mouth when she woke up were, "I don't want to ride the bus, I DON'T WANT TO RIDE THE BUS!!!" After some prodding and insisting that it was no big deal, and that she was going to try it today no matter what I got her going. Then at breakfast we made jokes about how she was going to "catch" the bus and danced the fishing dance. We went out, the bus driver went up the hill (pretty sure without even seeing us) and came down and stopped at our house.
There she goes! |
When he saw me he said, "Hey! I met you yesterday!" Yep, Francis, glad you remembered. I was most worried about her coming back home, but 2:30pm like clock work he dropped her off again. We do highs and lows at dinnertime, and you guessed it, her high was riding the bus. Said she was going to ride the bus from now on. My favorite of this entire story is the picture I got when she got off the bus this afternoon. Pay attention to the bus driver in the background. Priceless.
She made it!! But my favorite is the bus driver, check it out! |
I want to be your bus drivers friend.
ReplyDeleteAnd good job lil lady .. sometimes all ya gotta do is try. ;P
I know right!! I LOVE THAT HE GAVE THE PEACE SIGN FOR THE PIC!!!!! I had no idea he did that until I looked at it.
ReplyDeleteLainey is one of the bravest little girls I know. Against all odds she is going to rise above all the problems in her young life and be a beautiful little girl.
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